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Lesbian Nerd Top Artist Drinker Heterosexual Lipstick lesbian Player Normal Wants children Bisexual Earthy Professional Monogamous Doesn't want children Without children Bi-curious Sporty Butch Transgender Feminine Old school Loner |
Non smoker Smoker Rides motorcycles Spiritual Religious Tattoos/piercing Good grammar Wears Birkenstocks Wears heels Heterosexually married Heterosexually divorced Out Closeted Musician Athlete Funny Passive Serious Assertive Creative Romantic Intelligent Barfly Likes pets |
Has pets Dyke Masculine Activist No lesbian experience Doesn't want/have pets Queer Androgynous (not masculine, not feminine) Feminist Vegetarian Soft butch Bottom Drama queen Lesbian mom Non drinker Talkative Driven/Motivated Predictable Honest Wear deodorants/perfumes Doesn't Wear deodorants/perfumes
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Tall Short Average height Plus size Average size Petite Nice legs Nice smile Nice hands Nice derričre Pretty face Nice eyes Short hair Average length hair Long hair Doesn't shave legs/pits Shave legs/pits Physically fit Fashion conscious Good hygiene Good dental care/teeth Comfortable in a dress
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Any additional labels you identify with that are not listed?
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Lesbian Nerd Top Artist Drinker Heterosexual Lipstick lesbian Player Normal Wants children Bisexual Earthy Professional Monogamous Doesn't want children Without children Bi-curious Sporty Butch Transgender Feminine Old school Loner |
Non smoker Smoker Ride motorcycles Spiritual Religious Tattoos/piercing Good grammar Wear Birkenstocks Wears heels Heterosexually married Heterosexually divorced Out Closeted Musician Athlete Funny Passive Serious Assertive Creative Romantic Intelligent Barfly Likes pets |
Has pets Dyke Masculine Activist No lesbian experience Doesn't want/have pets Queer Androgynous (not masculine, not feminine) Feminist Vegetarian Soft butch Bottom Drama-queen Lesbian mom Non drinker Talkative Driven/motivated Predictable Honest Wear deodorants/perfumes Doesn't wear deodorants/perfumes |
Tall Short Average height Plus size Average size Petite Nice legs Nice smile Nice hands Nice derričre Pretty face Nice eyes Short hair Average length hair Long hair Doesn't shave legs/pits Shave legs/pits Physically fit Fashion conscious Good hygiene Good dental care/teeth Comfortable in a dress
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Are there other preferred characteristics that are not listed?
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Lesbian Nerd Top Artist Drinker Heterosexual Lipstick lesbian Player Normal Wants children Bisexual Earthy Professional Monogamous Doesn't want children Without children Bi-curious Sporty Butch Transgender Feminine Old school Loner |
Non smoker Smoker Ride motorcycles Spiritual Religious Tattoos/piercing Good grammar Wear Birkenstocks Heterosexually married Heterosexually divorced Out Closeted Musician Athlete Funny Passive Serious Assertive Creative Romantic Intelligent Barfly Likes pets |
Has pets Dyke Masculine Activist No lesbian experience Doesn't want or have pets Queer Androgynous (not masculine, not feminine) Feminist Vegetarian Soft Butch Bottom Drama queen Lesbian mom Non drinker Talkative Driven/Motivated Predictable Honest Wear deodorants/perfumes Doesn't wear deodorants/perfumes |
Tall Short Average height Plus size Average size Petite Nice legs Nice smile Nice hands Nice derričre Pretty face Nice eyes Short hair Average length hair Long hair Doesn't shave legs/pits Shave legs/pits Physically fit Fashion conscious Good hygiene Good dental care/teeth Comfortable in a dress
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Other MUST HAVE characteristics of your potential partner that are not listed?
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Did you pick your partner based on these essential and preferred characteristics? Yes No If no, explain:
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Do you believe it is okay for someone to pursue someone who is in a relationship? Yes No Depends on Circumstances
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When you have been interested in someone, were you willing to initiate or ask her out? Yes No Depends on Circumstances
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Have you historically required that there be signs of interest before asking someone out? Yes No, If I'm interested I ask
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How would you describe your experiences meeting other single lesbians? It's Easy It's somewhat easy It's Somewhat difficult It's difficult I haven't met any other lesbians yet
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Check all of the steps you have you taken to find potential women to date (now or in the past)? |
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None Making my sexual orientation known around women I'm interested in dating Noticing women that interest me Asking others to introduce me Going on blind dates Going to lesbian friendly bookstores Visiting lesbian vacation spots, lesbian cruises, or other lesbian travel adventures Attending church Attending sporting events Playing/Watching organized recreational sports (i.e. softball, basketball, golf, volleyball) |
Attending potlucks, game nights, book clubs and other lesbian-specific social activities Joining GLBT professional groups and associations Registering for online dating service Attending lesbian single's functions Reading/responding to personals Attending school, classes, hobbies, clubs, etc Volunteer with gay friendly organizations Involve self with GLBT advocacy organizations and activities Attending gay/lesbian friend's parties Joining fitness center Self-help groups |
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What other steps have you taken to find potential
women to date?
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The following questions are based on your past experiences - unless they currently apply. |
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How many woman, total, have you dated in your life?
How long ago did you begin dating women? Yrs and Mo's
What is your longest period of time, single, between women? Yrs and Mo's
What is your longest term relationship? Yrs and Mo's What is the best part of dating? What is the worst part of dating?
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What
would you say are the top five ways/places to meet single lesbians? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.
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None Coffee date Share a meal A walk Cooking for your date Religious service |
Self-help meeting Drinks Sporting event A party Activity with lots of people |
Rent movie/carry-out Meet up with friends Working out Going shopping/mall Watch TV show Political event Movie Theatre |
Bowling Live entertainment Queer event - march, pride, etc. |
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Other first-date activities?
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Describe the best date you've been on. What made it so good? |
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Conversation Eye contact First date Energy/Connection |
Fun/Humor Spontaneity The activity/event of our date |
She wanted to see me again Seemed she liked me I liked her
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Our kiss Sex Her personality
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Other reasons your date was so good?
Have you ever been out with another woman and wondered is this a date? Yes No |
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Describe the worst date you've been on.
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Conversation Eye contact First date Energy/Connection |
Fun/Humor Spontaneity The activity/event of our date |
She wanted to see me again Seemed she liked me I liked her
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Our kiss Sex Her personality
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Do you believe you have one soul mate? Yes No Not Certain
Have you met her? Yes No I don't believe in them
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